Good day to all you fine people reading this weeks episode of BLOG the hard hitting docudrama from the award winning writer Daniel Blaze OBE....well that would be nice to say that wouldn't it? So unfortunately for you its just plain old Danny for now and the awards and OBE will have to wait until the day i do something useful or ground breaking in my hectic little life. i know what i want out of life at the moment and its not all penny whistles and moon pie, its pretty achievable if i keep focused and crack on without delaying any further.. for starters this Podcast is doing amazingly well and with the help of baby Jesus should get us a show on a worthy legal station, which in turn will help my Dj'ing and Stand up comedy work i already do.. then there's the lottery win and jetting off around the world with a certain young lady who will remain nameless at this point of proceedings, just just to say shes lovely and i am very happy right now without the lottery win, but if i could have it, then that will most definitely be the cherry, flake and sprinkles on the cake that Carlsberg make.. yes most probably the best cake in the whole world!! cake for everyone will be the cry!!
today seeing as im actually happy i shall tell you some things that are in my brain that may open your eyes to what's worth worrying about and what is happiness.. to start with you need to be comfortable with YOU, i don't mean wearing a tracksuit 24 hours a day, i mean you have to be able to look in the mirror and like what you see. i know for most of us that's asking quite a lot, but your ground zero of problems start from there. its never too late to change, whether that's going to the gym or becoming a nice person, if you have done things you regret then forgive yourself, if you have to pay some sort of penitence by doing charity work or helping others then do it. if you don't like your body this is a bit harder to deal with but not impossible, you don't need to go to the gym and spend the rest of your life eating salad. take the small steps towards changing things, if you eat mcdonalds 5 times a day, try only eating it 4 times a day for starters, if you get the bus to work get off the stop before the one you need and walk the rest, then the following week get off two stops before and so on, you don't need to move mountains for things to happen. just think about this, if you cant love and except you the way you are, you are never going to believe someone else will except you and run the high risk of being insecure and ruining any relationships you have.
as kids most other kids thought fat kids, ginger kids and kids who weren't the same colour as ourselves were somehow inferior, and to be honest i was pretty much of the same thinking even though i fell into one of them categorizes (i will let you guess what one), its normal to have them thoughts but it takes education from parents to let kids see that picking on others and bulling other kids is a sign that we are not happy with ourselves and use this bulling to draw attention away from our own insecurities.
Take time to think about what you want from life and take baby steps to making them happen, before you know it you will be running beside others who have been doing it a lot longer and you will look back and wonder what all the fuss was about.
as for taking my own advice, im actually doing it for once, i know what i want and its happening, i have cut down my eating, not just having milkshakes for breakfast, lunch and dinner, but eating smaller amounts and substituting breakfast with a shake, im happy to take my time loosing weight as in the end it comes down to a lifestyle change, and they take time. quick fixes are brilliant for instant results but what comes quickly can go quickly.. so onwards and being positive is the key, in the last couple of weeks ive probably had 7 chocolate bars, and considering i could eat that in a day its progress :-)
god this weeks Blog has been all preachy and im sorry, but im bursting with positiveness.. not sure facebook is letting people send messages from groups any more so having to do this via blogger, u can send them on person to person to please feel free :-)
right until next time have a ball girls n boys and look after those who look after you. :-)
No comments:
Post a Comment